In this very convoluted world, as one said, you cannot control the actions of others but you can always control yours. Life indeed, is what you make of it. All is well!
”Tragedies do happen. We can discover the reason, blame others, imagine how different our lives would be had they not occurred. But none of that is important: they did occur, and so be it. From there onward we must put aside the fear that they awoke in us and begin to rebuild.